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Caroline's avatar

I’m not sure why the “yard” party piece made me cry so much - except it was such an exquisite description of those rare rare places that feel like home with non of the burdens, just pure joy. Thank you.

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Teresa's avatar

What a great story, you say it so well and took me right into that meeting with you, I could hear your gorgeous words. It reminds me of my own “lifter-upper’ Noreen. God how I love that woman. It was a million years ago, a big meeting, I was standing in for Noreen at an important meeting with the president, rumored to use the F-bomb and call you out. Unlike you, Debra, presenting your gorgeous words and perfect tone, I was presenting numbers on a billion dollar excel spreadsheet, not my long suit. Prior to the meeting, I took Noreen through a rehearsal walk-through, nervous as a cat for the impending meeting. She took out a red felt-tipped pen and wrote across the top in big bold letters “You are my expert.” I still well up with tears whenever I think about or retell that story. She gave me such a rush of confidence, I walked into that meeting feeling prepared to meet the bear — who said “f*cling great.” Thank you for reminding me of how important it is to lift people up around us, to be generous and patient and kind. Luv ya! Luv Ruffle!

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